Tag Archives: Marriage Life Tips

MatrimonialsIndia.Com – Blogs Release March 2012

3 Apr

How To Shape Up Before The D-Day
So your wedding date is set and your extra kilos are causing sleepless nights? Are you having pre-wedding blues about how fit you will look on this special day of your life? Well, wedding is once in a lifetime experience and surely, you do not want to experience it with your out of shape body [...]

Cold Feet Before Marriage? Know Some Simple Ways To Calm Yourself
As the day of the nuptials fast approaches, it is very common for the brides and grooms to feel jittery and nervous. This is an indication of the age old condition called Cold feet. Remind yourself that what you are feeling is quite normal and everyone has gone through it at the time of their marriage [...]

How To Maintain A Balance Between Money And Marriage
Marriage is the most exciting thing one can experience in his/her life. It simply means sharing your entire life with someone you love. Finance is the most important aspect in this sharing relationship [...]

The Elegant Ceremonies Of Kshatriya Matrimony
The Kshatriya matrimony has many elaborate rituals and events that have a deep rooted meaning and significance. Like all other marriages this wedding also starts off with an engagement [...]

Matrimony In India Redefined By The Internet
Marriages are made in heaven, so the saying goes. Earlier, parents and elders used to search for marriage proposals for their children. The children were kept out of the picture and after all proceedings are prepared, they were informed of the “decision” [...]

Some Effective Tips For Husbands To Be
Marriage is the most awaited occasion in one’s life. It is the celebration of two souls coming together and getting united to be inseparable for the rest of their lives. It is often seen that brides to be are very nervous before the D-day. But this fact is undeniable that the grooms to-be are more anxious than the brides [...]

Sindhi Weddings – Blend Of Elegance And Traditions
India is an amalgamation of cultures. Each community in India has its own traditions and formalities that make it distinct. The Sindhi people are one such prominent community in India. The marriage ceremonies in the Sindhi culture are beautiful and meaningful [...]

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Cold Feet Before Marriage? Know Some Simple Ways To Calm Yourself

12 Mar

As the day of the nuptials fast approaches, it is very common for the brides and grooms to feel jittery and nervous. This is an indication of the age old condition called Cold feet. Remind yourself that what you are feeling is quite normal and everyone has gone through it at the time of their marriage. Take a break from all the wedding preparations and relax for a while. The feeling of Cold Feet is just a way of your mind telling you about the big change that is going to happen in your life.

There are many ways to overcome this feeling. It is very important that you deal with this issue and not dismiss it off casually. Analyze what you are feeling in detail. Is the nervousness about the marriage or the marriage preparations? If the answer is marriage, remind yourself that you are in a loving relationship with someone who you care about and who cares about you. Talk to your partner or friends about your feelings. There are many ways which can help you overcome the case of cold feet. Other things you can do are:

  • Think about the good things associated with marriage and life after marriage.
  • Write your fears on a piece of paper and read them to yourself. You will find that most of the fears are baseless which will help you calm yourself down.
  • Take a break from the wedding preparations and go out with friends.
  • It would be wise to talk to other married couples and their experiences after marriage.
  • You can even take professional help from therapists and counselors who can allay your fears and nervousness. They are experienced in such cases and may suggest techniques that may help you relax.
  • Think about the happy moments of your relationship like the first date, the time you spent together, about the proposal etc.

In case your partner is the one with the jitters, it is important that you have open talks and share the fears. Marriage is a joyful occasion and a cool head with clarity in mind will ensure that you stay carefree on the wedding day.

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MatrimonialsIndia.Com – Blogs Release February 2012

2 Mar

Romantic Ideas For Busy Couple!
Working couples or those who are career oriented find that, after a few years of their marriage, the initial excitement of togetherness just vanishes. Work keeps them busy all the time. They come home, eat dinner and fall asleep, only to be woken by the alarm the next day [...]

Marriage: New Chapter In A Woman’s Life
Marriage is a word which changes everything in women’s life. If you are getting married, soon you will be sharing your life with your future partner. This will bring new responsibilities, new family ties and adjustments. Marriage is not always a bed of roses but support, love and understanding from in-laws can make it is an easier ride [...]

How To Choose Exclusive Wedding Cards
With e-invites gradually taking the place of the wedding invitation cards, wedding cards are being introduced the market with many exclusive designs. Rituals are there to solemnize the marriage, but to make a long-lasting impact and to be the trendsetter; people spend a lot on the different celebrations of wedding [...]

The Telugu Way Of Tying The Knot
The Telugu Wedding, traditionally called Teluginti Pelli aptly reflects the sense of warmth and the love for culture the people of this community possess. While earlier the rituals lasted for almost 15 day, a modern day Telugu wedding can last for 5 days. This write-up presents an overview of the beautiful wedding ceremony of Telugus [...]

Points To Remember While Planning A Wedding
Wedding is an important event in a person’s life. Although it is said to be in heaven, the task of making the wedding proceed smoothly falls on the shoulders of mortals. It may seem like a difficult and stressful task but a proper and methodical planning will ensure that the day goes on smoothly [...]

Think Twice Before Divorce
Are you standing on the cross roads of deciding your marital future? Does the option of divorce linger at the back of your mind? If so, then it is extremely important that you take a step back and analyze the situation before taking a step further.Sometimes the emptiness and bleakness of the marriage hits you even though you love your spouse dearly [...]

Your Wedding Make-Up Guide
Wedding is an occasion where two souls exchange their vows and promise to live their life together. On this auspicious moment, it is obvious that you want to look fabulous and stunning. For this much-awaited day, brides-to-be start their preparation months before the D-day [...]

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Marriage: New Chapter In A Woman’s Life

10 Feb

Marriage is a word which changes everything in women’s life. If you are getting married, soon you will be sharing your life with your future partner. This will bring new responsibilities, new family ties and adjustments. Marriage is not always a bed of roses but support, love and understanding from in-laws can make it is an easier ride. Key quotient to lead a happy married life is to understand each others’ need and act according to it.

Apart from these, there are some useful tips that can help you in leading a healthy marriage right from adjusting with your in-laws to keeping your husband happy.

Don’t Be Dominating Freak
Give some space to your hubby. Men do not like women controlling them. Let him have fun with his friend’s. Allow him to go out for boy’s night out. It will refresh him and his mind. Don’t try to run his world. Just let him be himself and do things his way. This way he will also give you space which you require. The more satisfied a man is, the better it is for you and your relationship.

Don’t Be Jealous
Men are born with a roving eye. Don’t be jealous while he is looking at other women. Do not be wary, as it is their in-built trait which they can’t change. If your man is ogling at some other girl that doesn’t mean he is cheating on you. It’s just their normal self. But if it gets out of hand then maybe you need to lighten up a bit by playfully teasing him or seriously discuss the matter and you feelings.

Seduce Your Husband
Sex is the natural process which rejuvenates the dull and boring marital relationship. Sex is the best way to bring intimacy in your relationship and it will bring you closer to each other. It will add some spice in your exhausted and lifeless relationship so try out different ways of seducing your husband.

Don’t Try To Change Him
Don’t try to change your husband but accept him for what he is and love him evermore. Men are cluttered, confused, and crazy, but they do anything and everything to keep you happy. Accept him unconditionally for he is the one who will support you when no one is around.

These tips are basically based on a man’s psyche and the emotional equation of the spouses in a relationship. With an understanding of your man, you can surely form a strong bond with him to make your marriage work and get through the initial adjustment phase to become more than friends or lovers.

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Romantic Ideas For Busy Couple!

7 Feb

Working couples or those who are career oriented find that, after a few years of their marriage, the initial excitement of togetherness just vanishes. Work keeps them busy all the time. They come home, eat dinner and fall asleep, only to be woken by the alarm the next day. Those rosy and peachy feelings that a couple loved to exchange get chucked as the mad rush to make a place in the rat race of this fickle world begins.

So what should such a career ambitious couple do to keep the romance alive?
For 24X7 busy couples, there are still some ways to keep the channels of communication open and rekindle the lost feelings even with their time crunch. Some romantic tips for the same are being discussed here:

Stay In Touch
Calling at least once or twice, if possible, in a day is not a choice but something that should be done religiously. It would be wrong to call it as interference or being over possessive! It is a way to show your concern for your partner, though it is equally important to respectful each other’s personal space at the same time.

Start Dating Once Again
Why don’t the two of you schedule a day just and just for yourself? Send your children to their aunt and uncle’s place and spend some quality time together, dating just like the old times!

Work Together
Simple things like making dinner, cleaning wardrobe, folding up laundry, clearing clutter in the house, are among the various things a couple can do together . Working on the same idea, spend some alone time with each other. While your hands are busy, you could talk about important issues that you are facing or ever wanted to discuss.

All you need to do is, to take it easy, slow down, and put a break to your fast paced lifestyle. Take some time out of your busy schedule, tickle your romantic bones and get back to those ‘rosy days’ to add new pages to your beautiful love story!

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Are You Trapped In These Relationship Myths Too?

27 Dec

Right from our teenage years, we learn about love and relationships from romantic films, mills and boons novels, magazines, and, of course, our own personal experiences. But in the process we often tend to cling to strong opinions about relationships which are completely based on misconceptions and myths.

Here are some common relationship myths that majorly contribute to lifelong quarrels based on unrealistic expectations:

1st Myth: Opposites attract and remain interested in one another due to their opposite nature.
What do facts say?
Similarities between two people are something that helps them to remain together for the long term. Opposites can never lead to the most successful, happy relationships; because of their diverse thinking. Happy couples are those who actually share similar basic life values. It never matters if they possess different tastes, or belongs to different religions, as long as their core values match with each other.

2nd Myth: No conflict defines a perfect relationship.
What do facts say?
Conflicts in a relationship are very important, not just to develop clear understanding about each others, but also to eradicate the misunderstanding regarding your life partner. A lack of conflict in a relationship signals that you either not taking your relationship seriously, or avoiding dealing with issues that really matter.

3rd Myth: Separate lives keep couples together.
What do facts say?
Couples who live their lives on parallel note and dislike to invite their life partners into their individual world majorly tend to grow apart. Independent lifestyle without sharing major activities together with your spouse makes both unhappy over the long term. Rather emotional, social, cultural, and financial interdependence creates the incentive for couples to stay together.

These misconceptions and myths can damage your relationships by creating unrealistic expectations and leading to anger, grief, and frustration. By developing understanding on how your partner thinks, behaves, and relates, through these facts you can approach your relationship with a fresh and unbiased manner.

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