Tag Archives: Happy Relationship

MatrimonialsIndia.Com – Blogs Release April 2014

3 May

Make Private Times With Your Wife a Special One
The daily hustle and bustle of life makes it very hard to find out private time with your wife. Sometimes other works like caring for an elderly parent, children or other engaging activities make up most part of your day. Nevertheless, it is should be a primary thing on your daily schedule to get some special time for your wife [...]

What is the Reason Behind a Successful Relationship
With age, most of the couples forget the reason why they are together. This happens when they get involved in bringing up their children, making up their career etc. The real fact is that we all must find time to discover our partners more effectively, even though they have always been with us [...]

How can Honesty be Regained in Marriage
Honesty is an important component in the bond of marriage. If you are honest then there is no better thing to smoothen your relationship. Honesty is a thread that binds a couple and their children. If one of the spouses act in a deceptive manner then it is very important that you take immediate steps to restore the bond [...]

Find Your Perfect Punjabi Match On A Matrimonial Website
Are you a Sikh – Ramgharia boy looking for prospective Punjabi brides? Or a Punjabi Khatri girl in search of a potential life partner? The Punjabi Matrimonial Websites are, certainly, meant for you! Today, there are numerous Matrimonial Websites that offer dedicated online matrimonial services that can help you in finding your potential partner online [...]

What is the Reason Behind a Successful Relationship

9 Apr
What is the Reason Behind a Successful Relationship

What is the Reason Behind a Successful Relationship

With age, most of the couples forget the reason why they are together. This happens when they get involved in bringing up their children, making up their career etc. The real fact is that we all must find time to discover our partners more effectively, even though they have always been with us.

One day after lunch with a friend, Akhil was asked about the “key to his healthy and happy relationship.” Akhil then responded, “I am fortunate that I married an amazing woman, and I have made a commitment to emphasize this relationship with her as I have done in other areas of my life: work, friendship. I never thought of taking this relationship for granted nor am I casual about it. My partner has never failed me. On the whole, we make a great team. I get too low when she is not beside me.”

Lucky couples like Akhil and his wife know the importance of giving their relationship the first priority. They do not like it getting tampered at any cost. They are also well aware of the main ingredients that are vital in keeping each other content, happy and satisfied.

Here are three top secrets for constructing a successful relationship.

  • The success behind every happy couple is that they enjoy each other’s presence, talk well and love doing things together. It is important that the woman to whom you are married always puts up with you no matter what happens.
  • It is a myth that happy couples do not fight. Good couples fight skillfully. When two persons live under the same roof, it is quite obvious that there might be disagreements and differences in opinion. While fighting it is very essential to take care of the fact that this so called ’fight’ only improves your relationship, lest it should not deteriorate. Successful couples always use plural instead of singular pronouns like ‘us’, ‘ours’ and ‘we’. Using such words help both the parties to feel that they are not different but part of one team.
  • Good partners often offer and seek forgiveness. There is nothing wrong in admitting one’s faults, and offering an apology. Another important fact is that you need to stand by your spouse during all sorts of crisis, be it financial or emotional.

The aforesaid are some of the secrets that lie in the success of every relationship.

Make Private Times With Your Wife a Special One

4 Apr

Make Private Times With Your Wife a Special OneThe daily hustle and bustle of life makes it very hard to find out private time with your wife. Sometimes other works like caring for an elderly parent, children or other engaging activities make up most part of your day. Nevertheless, it is should be a primary thing on your daily schedule to get some special time for your wife. If you falter in finding out such times, then you are on the verge of an unsuccessful relation. A balanced and healthy marital relation gives importance to private times where both of you can share your joys, grief and do things that are worth enjoying.

Whenever both of you get some private time together, try to speak with your wife in an open manner, without much restrictions. When you approach her about a situation, avoid blaming her and try to rectify her in a humble manner. Always be modest and have the guts to say ‘sorry’ when required. You can also invite her for a date.

  • Make this private time a part of your daily schedule, but it needn’t be on the same time every day.
  • Try sending children to bed at an early hour so that they might not interfere with your private time. This kind of organized schedule helps you to keep the special time with your wife intact. In case if you have to do some work at home, try to end it as early as possible so that you might not compromise on your private time.
  • Mobile phones and laptops are good at office, but they might spoil your happy moments at home. So it is better to switch off cell phones. You can also ask your wife to do the same if she is over with her work.
  • Women always adore surprises and gifts. Bring a smile on your wife’s face by bringing her a bunch of roses, or gifting her something unique like a card or even chocolates, showing how much she means to you.

These are some of the tips that will help you in making out private time with your wife. What matters more is the love and pampering that you provide her, no matter however small time you get to be private.

Relationship Fears Can Ruin Your Healthy Relationship

10 Dec

Relationship Fears Can Ruin Your Healthy RelationshipThe main pillars of a relationship are love, trust and understanding. For some of us who take this for granted, relationship can turn out to be a nightmare. Most of the failed relationships are due to an additional burden of relationship fear; this could be fear of losing themselves, or the fear of getting separated. But, in reality, there’s just no ground for such fear, it is something that is born out of insecurity that can destroy what could otherwise have been a perfect relationship.

Fear of Intimacy
For a lot of people, the fear of intimacy i.e. the feeling that they do not deserve love can disrupt a relationship. To conquer this fear, you need to think positive. Being in a relationship is not just about giving love, its means receiving as well. If you are unable to give or receive love, there are real chances that you could end up pushing your partner away.

To build a healthy relationship, you need to get close to your partner, to open up with them, to understand how and what they need from a relationship and how you can help in sustaining it. It may be difficult at first, but as you share your thoughts and feelings with each other, the closer you may get to each other.

Fear of Identity Loss
Some fear that when in a relationship they may lose their identity. Well, since you are an equal half in the relationship, you stand an equal responsibility for making a relationship work. To get rid of this fear, you need to understand that it takes two people to make a relationship work. If you feel your partner is taking advantage of you, you need to set boundaries for what you may allow and what you may not. If your partner is unable to respect you for ‘who you are’ and makes no effort to make the relationship work, then you would need to consider whether it is fruitful to carry forward the relationship or not.

If you have a fear then it is better to accept it and accept the fact that you have a problem. Once accepted, you would need to deal with it with an open mind; handling relationship fears with a closed mind can make it worse. Sharing is the universal remedy whenever you experience a roadblock in your relationship. Talk to your partner about it and never feel embarrassed.

5 Things A Man wants In A Woman

10 Sep

5 Things A Man wants In A WomanIf you are single lady eagerly waiting for your Prince charming, you must be aware of the 5 most important things in a woman that attract men. An educated man with modern values respects women and expects her to be an independent and confident person. Falling for someone is one thing and tying the knot with someone is another. Beauty may attract men towards you but it takes beyond looks to convince a man that you are the one!

5 Things A Man Wants In A Woman:

  • Independence & Confidence- A woman who is independent and confident is a symbol of strength and courage. She is the right choice for marriage as she will tackle all situations decisively and bravely.
  • Respectful- A woman who has her own identity but still respects her counterpart and shows him how important he is, is the perfect woman for marriage. Men don’t like over-smart women who show off a lot. Also, you must respect yourself as well. Don’t date married or committed men. They are not worth it.
  • Space- A woman who gives some space to her mate for boy-things like cricket, hangout with buddies, etc are more comfortable to live with. Trust me, men don’t like interference in a few things at all, like cricket, boys-hangouts etc.
  • Possessive- Giving space is good, but being completely indifferent might hurt the emotions and ego of your man. So, show him that your care and you are possessive about him, but don’t go overboard.
  • Be his friend: Be respectful towards him in front of his friends and guests. Don’t laugh at him, laugh with him! Also, motivate him for progress and positivity in life. Remember, a woman inspires a man.

He will love you, pamper you and tolerate all your tantrums. But, you must take care of his emotions and respect. He is meant to be regarded as the head of your family. Give him his due respect. Love him, care for him and give him his share of personal space. Be a part of his life; don’t try to be HIS life. If he loves you, he will be only yours forever

Think Twice Before Divorce

24 Feb

Are you standing on the cross roads of deciding your marital future? Does the option of divorce linger at the back of your mind? If so, then it is extremely important that you take a step back and analyze the situation before taking a step further. Sometimes the emptiness and bleakness of the marriage hits you even though you love your spouse dearly. Divorce is a not a wise option in such a case. Marital issues can be resolved with a little effort and a clear head. Divorce should be farthest from your mind when you love your spouse.

Do remind yourself that there are many people who have brought their marriage back to life with strong will and determination. So, focus your mind and muster up the mental strength to clear your marital issues. The following points will help you put marriage back on track.

  • Clear The Air
    It is important to have an open talk with your partner. Communication can work wonders in saving a marriage. It is also equally essential to listen to your spouse. Keep an open mind and talk freely about the issues bothering you. Also, go beyond the petty issues to find out what is actually plaguing your marriage.
  • Be Realistic, Not Pessimistic
    It is important to keep your feet firmly planted in the ground. Remember that life is different from fantasies. Marriage needs compromises and efforts to make it successful. So prepare yourself mentally with an aim to strengthen your marriage. There may be certain issues that are common to all couples. You need to identify those and try to create a healthy relationship while taking them in stride.
  • The Effect On Your Kids
    If there are kids involved in the scene, remember to make their welfare a top priority. You have to take decision keeping their best interests and future in mind.
  • Marriage Counseling Works!
    Professionals can offer an unbiased look into your problems. They are qualified to handle cases where reasons like infidelity and broken trust threaten the marriage.

Remember that you can bring “happily ever after” to your marriage with a little effort. Keep these points in mind to look forward to marital bliss.

Romantic Ideas For Busy Couple!

7 Feb

Working couples or those who are career oriented find that, after a few years of their marriage, the initial excitement of togetherness just vanishes. Work keeps them busy all the time. They come home, eat dinner and fall asleep, only to be woken by the alarm the next day. Those rosy and peachy feelings that a couple loved to exchange get chucked as the mad rush to make a place in the rat race of this fickle world begins.

So what should such a career ambitious couple do to keep the romance alive?
For 24X7 busy couples, there are still some ways to keep the channels of communication open and rekindle the lost feelings even with their time crunch. Some romantic tips for the same are being discussed here:

Stay In Touch
Calling at least once or twice, if possible, in a day is not a choice but something that should be done religiously. It would be wrong to call it as interference or being over possessive! It is a way to show your concern for your partner, though it is equally important to respectful each other’s personal space at the same time.

Start Dating Once Again
Why don’t the two of you schedule a day just and just for yourself? Send your children to their aunt and uncle’s place and spend some quality time together, dating just like the old times!

Work Together
Simple things like making dinner, cleaning wardrobe, folding up laundry, clearing clutter in the house, are among the various things a couple can do together . Working on the same idea, spend some alone time with each other. While your hands are busy, you could talk about important issues that you are facing or ever wanted to discuss.

All you need to do is, to take it easy, slow down, and put a break to your fast paced lifestyle. Take some time out of your busy schedule, tickle your romantic bones and get back to those ‘rosy days’ to add new pages to your beautiful love story!

MatrimonialsIndia.Com – Blogs Release January 2012

4 Feb

Buddhist Wedding: A Union of Simplicity and Elegance
Weddings are a time of joy and happiness. Two people and their families come together as one and take a step towards a bright, promising future. Weddings bring to mind a colorful, loud and bright picture. The music, the well adorned halls, the merry guests, the lavish feasts, the bright lights and in the center of it all, the significant and meaningful wedding rituals.[...]

Revive Your Marriage With Marriage Counseling
Marriage celebrates coming together of two individuals who take a step into a new world filled with promises, dreams and hopes. Somewhere down the road, the couple loses sight of these and starts to feel strain and pressure. To survive this tumult in the relationship, they either rely on their own mental strength or in some cases; the help of an experienced professional often helps put ideas back into perspective.[...]

How To Find The Right Wedding Caterer?
Indian Marriages are all about rituals, dance, music, and… food! Yes, it is true. Our weddings are incomplete without scrumptious delicacies. Be it a South Indian Wedding Party or a Wedding Bash taking place somewhere in North India- a mouth watering menu is a must. Thus, professional Food Caterers are hired to take care of the food and beverages needs of the wedding celebration.[...]

The Joyful Ritual Of Sangeet
Any celebration is incomplete without dancing and singing. In Indian wedding ceremonies as well, dancing and singing from a part of the entire celebration and rituals. No matter in which region or culture the wedding takes place, there has to be some dancing before the auspicious wedding night. Beats Of The Sangeet Ceremony In India,[...]

Manipuri Wedding – A Traditional Event Filled With Color, Joy & Love
The love the Manpuris have for their culture is inevitable as they are known for their vibrant personalities and pleasant aura. All the traditions and customs of the tribes of Manipur are associated with color and grandeur. Same is associated with the Manipuri Wedding as well.[...]

Nothing Like A Punjabi Wedding!
The Punjabis, known for their laughter, liveliness and of course, the bhangra, know how to pull every stop when it comes to celebrating. And what can be a better occasion to celebrate than a family wedding? Traditional Punjabi marriage is splendid occasion of celebration with of plentiful fun & frolic and several interesting rituals.[...]

Pros And Cons Of Matrimonial Sites
There would hardly be anyone who has not thought about or made plans for his/her dream-come-true day. Yes, we’re talking about wedding day here. Wedding is, undoubtedly, an auspicious occasion that comes along with happiness and starts a new phase of life for both bride and groom; the happiness that lasts forever and the phase[...]

Wedding Nail Art: The Latest Trend For Brides!
From the vibrant to the most elegant ones, from the colorful to the most decent ones, from the sparkling to the simplest ones, there is an extensive collection of wedding nail art ideas which a bride-to-be can actually choose from. Let The Floral Acrylics Bloom! Acrylic flowers are the trendiest wedding nail art idea these[...]

Revive Your Marriage With Marriage Counseling

10 Jan

Marriage celebrates coming together of two individuals who take a step into a new world filled with promises, dreams and hopes. Somewhere down the road, the couple loses sight of these and starts to feel strain and pressure. To survive this tumult in the relationship, they either rely on their own mental strength or in some cases; the help of an experienced professional often helps put ideas back into perspective. Marriage Counseling is emerging as a popular form of therapy and guidance that is helping many couples tide over their marital issues.

Marriage Counseling is a process where a qualified professional endeavors to recognize and manage the various issues and troubles that the couple is facing. The counselor attempts to reconcile the differences and save the marriage from the point of distress. A traditional version of the Marriage Counseling has been into practice for many years where couples talk to close friends and family who try to solve the differences but sometimes the intervention of a professional is required for the same.

Professional Marriage Counseling has several benefits and so many couples resort to this as a means to save their relationship.

  • The counselors treat your case as an individual and special scenario. They treat your family as an independent unit which enables them to offer suitable advice.
  • The professionals offer an unbiased opinion which cannot be expected from families and friends. Marriage Counseling offers more privacy.
  • A counselor opens channels of communication which help resolve problems effectively and clear misunderstandings.
  • They can help spot out the deep seated issues and problems that both the spouses have ignored.
  • The professionals can recommend activities and tasks that the couple may have to do together which will help smooth out any creases in the relationship.
  • In situations where children are involved, the counselors are specially qualified to handle such cases to ensure that the children are not stressed or pressured.

Going for Marriage Counseling is a step that the both the spouses have to take together. Marriage is a very special bond that has to be nurtured and strengthened with time so that it will blossom to a happy future and a little professional intervention can go a long way to establish this.

MatrimonialsIndia.Com – Blogs Release December 2011

3 Jan

Why You Must Have A Wedding Website?
Most of the Indian Weddings are incomplete without the blessings and good wishes of near & dear ones. Thus, much emphasis is given on involving friends and relatives in the wedding celebrations. The Internet has given an impressive alternative to the conventional way of informing people about a wedding.[...]

Wedding Music: DJ System Versus A Live Band
Weddings are incomplete without good music, particularly in India. Like everything else, the Wedding Music also has to be the best. Different situations and ceremonies of a wedding need different music that can heighten up the enjoyment quotient for the guests and the couple. Thus, a sound arrangement for music becomes almost a necessity.[...]

What Is The Ideal Wedding Gift?
If one of your dear ones is getting married soon, then make sure you don’t lack behind in expressing your good wishes and happiness. Be it your brother, sister, friend or any acquaintance, the most appropriate way for you to convey your feelings is in the form of a gift. You must choose and buy a present that reflects your thoughts in the best possible manner.[...]

Tips To Make Your Marriage Succeed
Marriage is said to be the new beginning wherein one gets a new partner in life to share the bliss and adversities. Initially marriage seems like a dream land where everything is perfect. But life is not always the same. In the married life as well, problems have to be faced by a couple that have to be tackled and surpassed.[...]

The Beautiful Wedding Of Kashmiris..
The fact that the people of Kashmir add to the picturesque and natural beauty that surrounds them is well-known and whole-heartedly accepted all across the globe. What is little known about the region of Kashmir is the fact that the Weddings that take place in the area are as magnificent and exquisite.[...]

Beautiful Accessories of the Gorgeous Indian Brides
The beauty and the charming get-up of Indian Brides are known and celebrated all over the world. People across the globe compare the appeal of the Brides of India to a magnificent dream. The charm and aura of the soon-to-be-Mrs. is complemented with stunning accessories. Be it the necklace, the bangles, the earrings,[...]

Are You Trapped In These Relationship Myths Too?
Right from our teenage years, we learn about love and relationships from romantic films, mills and boons novels, magazines, and, of course, our own personal experiences. But in the process we often tend to cling to strong opinions about relationships which are completely based on misconceptions and myths.[...]

Bridal Beauty Tips!
When the marriage of a girl is fixed, her level of anxiety to look her best starts increasing day by day. With the availability of a number of bridal beauty packages, the brides have to avail skin nourishment, hair conditioning, and many other services to enhance their beauty. Although, the natural glow of happiness on brides’ faces is incomparable,[...]

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